Make It OK - Stories

Many people are still afraid to talk about mental illness due to shame, misunderstanding, negative attitudes and fear of discrimination. The more we can understand mental illness, the more we can talk about it, the more we reduce stigma and Make It OK to not be OK.

Below are the stories of brave Iowans who have shared their stories in the hopes of reducing stigma, and helping others feel less alone in their struggle with mental illness. By sharing our personal stories, we can start important conversations and normalize mental health. Stories are organized by the illnesses they discuss.

Anxiety and Depression

  • Ann's Story

    Ann Flood might’ve sought help for her ADHD earlier in life if it wasn’t for the stigma.

  • Ben's story

    Once Ben Rogers found the right medication for his depression, his whole life changed.

  • Beth's story

    After Beth Nyguard's husband took his own life, she wants to speak out about stigma.

  • Brad's story

    Brad Brake has a professional and personal stake in mental health.

  • Claire's story

    After learning how to manage her mental illness, Claire Richmond became more confident.

  • Dan's story

    After seeking professional help, Dan Hanrahan is now grateful for his mental health journey

  • Danny's Story

    A traumatic childhood experience caused Danny Beyer to experience anxiety as an adult.

  • Gina's story

    It took Gina Skinner-Thebo two decades to find the right coping mechanisms for her depression.

  • Jake's Story

    Jake’s journey with anxiety has taught him the importance of sharing his story and self care.

  • Krys' Story

    Therapy helped Krys Rankin have a greater understanding of her mental illness.

  • Lauren's story

    Lauren Matysik is open about her mental health struggles, hoping her story can help others.

  • Leah's story

    Leah Beman is the president for NAMI On Campus at Iowa State University.

  • Lisa Petersen

    Lisa's Story

    Watch as Lisa shares her personal story of mental illness and why she believes the Make It OK effort is helpful.

  • Marty's story

    Marty Parrish alternated between periods of wellness and depression over three decades.

  • Mary Nelle's story

    Mary Nelle Trefz's support system helped her cope with postpartum depression.

  • Mary & Larry's story

    Mary Neubauer and Larry Loss are advocates for mental health in honor of their son, Sergei.

  • Rae's story

    Rae Shanahan, Chief Strategy Officer at Businessolver, takes medication for depression.

  • Sarah's story

    Sarah Noll Wilson, who suffers from panic disorder, wants others is to seek help if they need it.

  • Tanner's story

    Tanner Krause credits therapy with helping him navigate the unprecedented challenges of 2020.

  • Tegan's story

    Tegan Kraklio's mental health journey took a transformational turn when she was diagnosed with PTSD.

  • Vanessa's story

    Vanessa Cano Zelaya wants to raise awareness of mental health to the Lantinx community.

  • Wes' Story

    Getting help for his depression made Wes Mallgren feel like “that dark cloud vanished.”

Bipolar Disorder

  • Anne's story

    Anne Harris Carter now speaks openly about her Bipolar Type II diagnosis.

  • Amanda's story

    Amanda Yancy discovered she had bipolar disorder when she was 30 years old.

  • Carrie's story

    Carrie Clogg has been fighting stigma her entire life — not for herself, but for her son.

  • Franklin's story

    Franklin Johnson grew up in the 1960s, when mental illness went largely undiagnosed.

  • Kai's story

    Following her Bipolar II diagnosis, Kai Skaggs was determined to become successful.

  • Zach Stier

    Zach's Story

    Zach’s journey with bipolar disorder has inspired him to share his story, so that others will know they aren’t alone.

Eating Disorders

  • Karla's Story

    Karla Walsh struggled with anorexia nervosa — an eating disorder and mental illness.

  • Kristin's story

    Kristin Sauter still deals with anxiety, but has developed healthy coping habits.

  • Ramona's story

    Ramona Wink has witnessed mental illness in her family and battled one herself. Now, she helps others.

Post Traumatic Stress Disorder

  • Julie's story

    Julie Carolus was a victim of a sexual assault and later diagnosed with PTSD.

  • Kelsey's Story

    Traumatic childhood experiences set Kelsey on a journey to overcome CPTSD and dissociation with help from her poetry.

  • Nina's story

    Nina Richtman wants others to know that her sons, who suffer from PTSD, are trying their best.

General Mental Health

  • Dawn's Story

    Dawn Martinez Oropeza wants to remove barriers for Latinx youth in need of mental health resources.

  • Lyndsey's story

    After coming to terms with her mental illness, Lyndsey Fennelly has become a mental health advocate.

  • Orlando's story

    Orlando Fuentes wants to be known as an ally for those struggling with mental illness.